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WHY girls shouldn't fall prey to campus LOVE.

Today ,i'm gonna be speaking to young ladies who have done an exemplary job ,succeeded to score excellent grades in high school.After a long journey of burning the midnight oil,focusing on your studies,you have finally made it to college ,university or any other tertiary institution of your dreams.I'm saying congratulations. As you go to campus,i'm telling you in advance,PLEASE do not fall in love. Why i'm saying this? Thousands of young intellects with great potential make it to campus ,but innocently ruin their lives, waste their time by being in love. Note: the life of a lady is completely different from that of a man.So is the love life.Having gone through campus myself as a young girl ,i have seen how we ladies mess up our lives. What happens when you get pregnant in your first year?The stranger was having fun.He is not ready to be a father.He doesn't care.If you lucky enough to get the one who cares.He probably is a student like you,doesn't have the resources to take care of himself...TOO BAD. So you my sister, you forced to grow up.. be a mother ,unprepared psychologically.You become psychotic. Go back home to your parents ,embarrassed, ashamed because of failing your parents.You burden them with a new cute baggage ,because they love you ,they support you. You kill their spirit though if you are from a sorry state. If you from a well up family you can get back on your feet and continue with your studies. Think about it for a second.We are all given this advice ,some of us are too smart to imagine that it cannot happen to 'me'.You know.I have seen ladies who dropped out of campus completely and never got a chance of stepping back to class.Down the line they got married but nothing really changed.Their lives are probably way worse than they ever imagined.They were smart intellects who probably topped their class.But that baby...?Was the beginning of misery. You don't wanna be a murderer either having an abortion,but again maybe you look at where you come from and you just cannot have a baby.Of course you do what is best for you,get rid of it,live with the guilt. Honestly, smart ladies... it's so easy .Just close your legs girl.The right time will come. Don't think it's done when you get a baby.They is the period of mourning, self pity, anger, hatred, depression ,name it.If you survive the heart break that kills your spirit ,the shame of carrying what the society regards as a Bastard.You forced to learn the world in a completely different way. Your life drastically takes a new angle that you were never prepared for.Your baby daddy's life will continue .He will certainly graduate,get a job get another lady who was smarter than you, didn't get pregnant and marry.He might think of you once in a blue moon,but oops it's your business mama. So my sister there is a constant reminder of the man you thought you were in love with, staring at his son or daughter every morning,wake up to you mama 'i,m hungry'.You probably don't even know where you gonna get your next meal.A terrible experience.sad.

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