Campus Insight

To the young mothers in campus. I want to talk to you as a woman. I have learnt some important life lessons especially from the university. The fact that you got a kid should make you smarter in how you see the world. You might be a mommy by choice or not, that is: you were not psychologically prepared. Some people mock ... how can you not be prepared and yet you are engaging in adult stuff…? Well, when you fresh from high school as a young intellect who is so much focused and you just got to campus, met some TDH (Tall, Dark Handsome) guy from wherever. You love his vibe. You want to make friends and you innocently fall in love; before you know it… you making out with this guy… you are making love… You know! Shit happens. Whichever the reason… you should be prepared to face the world in a different and a new perspective. You have to know that you are different from your classmates or your age mates who are still single. You are a mother and there is a kid somewhere who is looking...

What happens when the lecturers go on strike for quite long? You don't know whether to go home?or stay in school or get a job?It's so confusing because you really cannot make a sound decision when a lot is unpredictable. Going home is obviously stressful.If you have cows you gar to wake up early before your cock's cock-a -doodle-doo..to milk the cows, take the milk to the dairy ,or prepare breakfast for your younger siblings or whatever you do in the morning that really sickens you. The option of remaining in isolated hostel rooms is tiring,you wake up in campus ,watch movies the whole day visit the few friends who are still around or sleep during the day ,to at-least shorten the time span you are literally alive thinking of when the lecturers are gonna call the strike off. A friend of mine tells me there's Wi-fi ,but i guess you get tired streaming the whole day especially if it has become a routine. Seeking a job ,sound really brilliant,but oops... you leave camp...

Today ,i'm gonna be speaking to young ladies who have done an exemplary job ,succeeded to score excellent grades in high school.After a long journey of burning the midnight oil,focusing on your studies,you have finally made it to college ,university or any other tertiary institution of your dreams.I'm saying congratulations. As you go to campus,i'm telling you in advance,PLEASE do not fall in love. Why i'm saying this? Thousands of young intellects with great potential make it to campus ,but innocently ruin their lives, waste their time by being in love. Note: the life of a lady is completely different from that of a man .So is the love life.Having gone through campus myself as a young girl ,i have seen how we ladies mess up our lives. What happens when you get pregnant in your first year?The stranger was having fun.He is not ready to be a father.He doesn't care.If you lucky enough to get the one who cares.He probably is a student like you,doesn't have...